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So, after a year and a half of trying to tell him that I am indeed a girl, that it was from birth, and that despite his fondest wishes, I actually am a girl, and would he please stop calling me by the name he would never had given me he'd known I were a girl, and instead call me Valerie, and until he did, I wasn't going to deal with him, he took the admonishment in stride. Later he called to discuss the matter of a thousand dollar interest free loan I had extended to him last year, and how he could make repayment. He proceeded to relate his concerns to my voicemail.

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May 20th, 2010
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Cool story, sis
May 20th, 2010
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I thought so. More enjoyable to laugh over it than get butthurt. Butthurting is my girlfriend's job. ^_^
May 20th, 2010
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I didn't laugh. I just found it an interesting reprieve from all the racist, sexist, homo/transphobic garbage on this website.
May 20th, 2010
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Really? I mean, Dad was pretty much his own dramatic reading here. I especially love the part where he manages to forget that I would always be *boyname* to him and say that it doesn't matter to him what gender I am. Also the outrage that I, living on my own for the past 7 years, may eat my own food... okay then. Ooh, also nice that he's trying to make me feel bad about my weight while I'm down 24 pounds since New Years. Just too much fail here for me not to laugh ruefully.
May 20th, 2010
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I'm transgendered too, my grandmother tolerates it for the most part. I'm finding the hardest part of life now is just getting ahold of an estrogen prescription for HRT.
May 20th, 2010
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If you live anywhere in the western world but Canada (yay for me) then www.inhousepharmacy.com has all the grey market girl pills you could want.
May 20th, 2010
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I thought there was no difference between men and women? What's the big deal then?
May 20th, 2010
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church and wellesley
May 20th, 2010
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Who and what now?
May 20th, 2010
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Six foot four, four hundred fuckin' pounds...
May 20th, 2010
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that's a HUGE bitch!
May 20th, 2010
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what a prick!
May 20th, 2010
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Sorry, but if it has a penis, it's a guy. Does you has a penis? if so, then you're a guy. If you HAD a penis and don't anymore, that just means you're a guy who had his wing wong chopped off for some gross reason.... just eewie.
May 20th, 2010
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Honestly this audio scared the crap out of me... I'm so glad my father died when I was still a baby and the only person who has to deal with this stuff is my grandmother. And really she can't act anywhere near as mean since she is blind and I take care of her.

But really.... I'm sorry your father is that....... fierce.
May 20th, 2010
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I'm in the middle of a situation like this. But I can't honestly laugh at this since I don't know what the situation was like before this with your dad.
May 20th, 2010
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sounds like Nitzwalsh is a 6'4" 400 pound asshole. But anyone has the right to change their name to whatever they wish... so whatever.
May 20th, 2010
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Actually, this would be the part of the phone call... well, one of many, where he takes a few liberties with the truth. Yes, I'm fat, and tall, but not nearly that fat and not quite that tall, and I have, since I started this whole giving up the pretending to be a boy thing, lost about 25 pounds. Seems like having something to live for agrees with me.

Also, there was the part where he says I've never thought of anyone else, which is neatly juxtaposed by a message last year, after christmas, where I basically spent three days at his place holding him while he cried because he couldn't deal with a break up that happened 6 months ago, where he said I was the most considerate person he knew.
May 21st, 2010
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can I borrow $1000 interest free too?
May 22nd, 2010
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You don't have to justify yourself or prove anything. Especially on the internet. Keep your chin up.
May 22nd, 2010
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holy jesus fucking fuck. What an ass holio.
October 4th, 2010
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he sounds like a drunk piece of shit.
July 14th, 2012
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CHAOS, CONSUME US.